Love for Life Podcast
The podcast for modern couples who want real connection that lasts.
Hosted by relationship and family coach Nichole Farrow and her husband Ben, this show is for couples trying to stay close while raising kids, building careers, and handling the stress of everyday life. Each week, they unpack the real issues behind modern relationships—intimacy, emotional connection, mental load, conflict, communication, and the quiet resentments no one talks about.
With a mix of expert insight and raw honesty, Nichole and Ben give you practical tools to strengthen your relationship, raise emotionally secure kids, and create a life you both actually want. Because working on your relationship isn’t just for when things go wrong—it’s a lifestyle choice that impacts everything. Research shows couples who invest in their connection are 6x more successful and live 4 years longer.
If you’re ready to break generational cycles, ditch the surface-level advice, and do the real work of love—this is your podcast.
Love for Life Podcast
#80: AITA: My Partner Says They'll 'Work On Us' But Won't Tell Me How
In this episode of Love for Life, Nichole and Ben dissect a frustratingly familiar relationship dynamic: the partner who promises to "work on us" but refuses to define what that actually means. When a listener's husband declares his New Year's resolution is to improve their relationship yet gets defensive about specifics, the hosts explore why vague promises are often just procrastination with better PR.
This episode is essential listening for anyone whose partner says they'll "try harder" without a plan, anyone who's been asking for couples therapy only to be told "we don't need it," or anyone exhausted from being the only one actively working on their relationship. Nichole and Ben break down the difference between relationship coaching and therapy, reveal why 80% of New Year's resolutions fail by February, and explain what "working on us" should actually look like in practice.
If you've ever felt like you're getting lip service instead of real commitment from your partner, this episode will help you demand the specifics you deserve or recognise when it's time to stop negotiating with someone who won't meet you halfway.
Connect with Nichole & Ben:
Send in your questions or show suggestions to hello@house-of-farrow.com
Coaching, updates & all the good stuff → http://house-of-farrow.com
Say hi on Instagram or tiktok → @house-of-farrow @nichole.farrow
Connect with Nichole & Ben:
Send in your questions or show suggestions to hello@house-of-farrow.com
Coaching, updates & all the good stuff → http://house-of-farrow.com
Say hi on Instagram or tiktok → @house-of-farrow @nichole.farrow
Catch every episode → Love for Life Podcast