Love for Life Podcast
The podcast for modern couples who want real connection that lasts.
Hosted by relationship and family coach Nichole Farrow and her husband Ben, this show is for couples trying to stay close while raising kids, building careers, and handling the stress of everyday life. Each week, they unpack the real issues behind modern relationships—intimacy, emotional connection, mental load, conflict, communication, and the quiet resentments no one talks about.
With a mix of expert insight and raw honesty, Nichole and Ben give you practical tools to strengthen your relationship, raise emotionally secure kids, and create a life you both actually want. Because working on your relationship isn’t just for when things go wrong—it’s a lifestyle choice that impacts everything. Research shows couples who invest in their connection are 6x more successful and live 4 years longer.
If you’re ready to break generational cycles, ditch the surface-level advice, and do the real work of love—this is your podcast.
Love for Life Podcast
#70: The Real Reason You're Fighting About Housework
In this episode, Nichole and Ben tackle one of the most explosive conflicts in modern relationships: the mental load debate. When one partner insists they're doing everything asked while the other feels like they're managing a household alone, who's right? If you've ever found yourself in a standoff over whether you should have to ask your partner to notice the overflowing bin, or you're exhausted from feeling like your home's project manager while your partner waits for instructions, this conversation will change everything. Nichole and Ben unpack why being helpful isn't the same as being an equal partner, what it really means to own a task versus just execute it, and how to shift from "just tell me what needs doing" to genuinely sharing the invisible work of running a home and family. This is honest marriage talk about emotional labor, household management, partnership equality, and how to stop fighting about housework and start building a relationship where both people feel seen, supported, and truly in it together. No task spreadsheets required - just real practical advice from a couple living it.
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