Love for Life Podcast
The podcast for modern couples who want real connection that lasts.
Hosted by relationship and family coach Nichole Farrow and her husband Ben, this show is for couples trying to stay close while raising kids, building careers, and handling the stress of everyday life. Each week, they unpack the real issues behind modern relationships—intimacy, emotional connection, mental load, conflict, communication, and the quiet resentments no one talks about.
With a mix of expert insight and raw honesty, Nichole and Ben give you practical tools to strengthen your relationship, raise emotionally secure kids, and create a life you both actually want. Because working on your relationship isn’t just for when things go wrong—it’s a lifestyle choice that impacts everything. Research shows couples who invest in their connection are 6x more successful and live 4 years longer.
If you’re ready to break generational cycles, ditch the surface-level advice, and do the real work of love—this is your podcast.
Love for Life Podcast
#59: What’s Fair in Divorce? The Conversation You Should Have Before You Ever Need It
When we’re in love, we imagine forever. But forever doesn’t always happen. And what’s often left behind isn’t just heartbreak it’s confusion, resentment, and financial ruin. Not because people didn’t care. But because they didn’t plan.
In this episode, Nichole and Ben get honest about divorce. Not to scare you. Not to push prenups. But to help you understand what fairness really looks like if the relationship ever ends.
From billion-pound settlements to couples with nothing but debt to divide, we unpack the real stories of divorce and ask the harder question:
What would feel fair to you?
This episode is part of our new series: “Conversations You’re Not Having (But Should Be)” because love isn’t just about how we stay together. It’s about how we care for each other, even if we don’t.
You’ll learn:
- Why most people have the wrong idea of what’s “fair” in a divorce
- Why women, especially mothers, are often worse off post-divorce
- What the stats say about housing, pensions, and hidden debts
- The conversations you should be having while things are good
- And what Oliver Anthony’s “Scornful Woman” gets right about emotional pain and money in a breakup
If you’re ready to build love with eyes wide open this episode is for you.
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